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[quote=Anonymous]I wish more people thought of this.  I'm a doctor with lots of elderly parents and I am shocked at how uninvolved most adult children are with their parents.  It is difficult to age: appointments, insurance, finances, health care decisions, are more complicated now.  Elderly are so often targeted for financial scams, it is awful.  Please have the difficult conversation with your elderly parents about: health care and financial power of attorney, where they keep essential information (especially since they will invariably forget every password ever created), who their doctor is, what their expectations are for the future.  They will resist this conversation, as most are in denial about the loss of independence, and they need a gentle push to just get over it (I would suggest a trust attorney to help navigate this if it's possible). They are definitely annoying, but so are most people in different ways. They don't want to stop driving, don't want to downsize to an apartment, don't want to move closer to you even though you need to stay where you are for your job, but maybe they should.   They should know how to use an Uber app, order groceries online, put a freeze on their credit accounts, etc.  [/quote]

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