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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. He’s been here less than a year. He’s sort of ok right now (though tough to live with because he is still capable of doing some things but refuses.) My husband really should not have brought him here but had good intentions.His dad had good care at home. He has no friends here and just us as family. I have kids to shuttle to activities and I’d like to visit friends and family but I can’t now. He leaves faucets running and doesn’t lock doors. He can’t hear but doesn’t want hearing aides so communicating is difficult. We have a family vacation coming up but his dad can’t go so I’m staying home now which is pretty frustrating. I’m just looking down the road a year or two when I probably fall apart and and need options. Because he has no assets and won’t have the 5 year residency, I am just feeling overwhelmed. Paying $6,000-$10,000 a month for care is not something we can swing long term. [/quote]
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