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[quote=Anonymous]It seems that no one in my life (except 2 YO DD and 4 YO DS) are willing to give me the straight story. I toggle back and forth between "glass is half full" vs. "glass is half empty" scenarios.

The politics at work are almost unbearable. There's the public story and the underlying "real" story. So far, I have been left out of what is the "real" story besides getting ominous e-mails from the person who is moving elsewhere in the company to bigger things while I (apparently) have the great honor of taking on all her responsibilities, but not her coveted title or paycheck. The wierd e-mail (which came with some sort of warning) and other subtleties in her changed demeanor tells me that there is more going on. Plus as I move into this "great" professional opportunity I will be working directly for/with someone who doesn't seem to care that much for my immediate boss.

Then there is my marriage and DH who doesn't really like to hang out at home anymore and his activities increasingly take him elsewhere during the week and on weekends. He doesn't want to admit there is a problem and when I bring it up I'm just "crazy".

How do you deal with the ambiguity? Do you try to "keep it real", keep your hand in the sand, or find some middle ground? Should I find a hobby, workout, take up drinking? Is therapy something I should make time for? I had a coach for awhile and she was extremely helpful in working through this stuff. Now she is gone and I still have those tools, but I do feel the need to "react" in some way.

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