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[quote=Anonymous]I feel exactly this way, and grew up in a household that was very damaging to me. I came to a point of rupture a while ago, and went no contact for two years. In that time, I felt relief, anger, but yes, mostly peace. At about the two year mark, I realized I wanted to know how my mother was. Not because I forgave anything, but because I realized that even though she had never really loved me, that I did love her, and would love her without expecting any change. But at that point, all expectations were gone. I wasn't meant to host them anymore, invite them to dinners, or any of it. I set the terms, and they are very limited. I will visit, but I will never stay with them, and I will let them know I am leaving at a certain time. I don't rely on them for transportation, for lodging, or anything. It works fine now. It's okay not to host them. [/quote]
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