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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Glad this is anon and no one here knows us.

My mid-20's ds had to block his dad, my exdh-because ex apparently texted him negatively in regards to ds being gay (ds is gay). Apparently this happened recently and I only know because another sibling told me.

Ex and I are still coparenting a dc but I don't speak to him at all about the adult dc. I do not plan to discuss it with him, as his relationships with the kids are his to maintain/destroy.

I'm not sure if I should bring it up to ds. Ds knows I love and support him (I see him and his partner whenever I can with all our job schedules), but I don't know if he knows that I had no idea this happened. I would like him to know that (that I had no idea ex was going to do that).  But he hasn't brought it up to me.

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I would talk with my son about the text I saw and how it is impacting him with love and compassion.  I would not tell him to block his dad, although I may ask if he wanted to brain storm ways to respond or not respond to his dad.  (I a therapist and mom--don't know if this makes a difference)[/quote]

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