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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here-- I think my issue is that I'm deeply unhappy either way. If I say yes, I'm unhappy and stressed/overworked. If I say no, they're angry at me which isn't great to manage either and it does cause problems elsewhere. For instance, if I say no to nanny, she might quit. But her working extra really ruins my own plans that I had already scheduled for the kids and I, not to mention that it's 1k more a month that I could spend on my kids.[/quote] Tell your nanny now that you've tried it, it's not working out for you and and are going to cut back her hours. If you're fine getting a new nanny anyway it doesn't matter if she quits, right? Take back that thou$and and the time with your kids. [/quote]
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