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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here-- I think my issue is that I'm deeply unhappy either way. If I say yes, I'm unhappy and stressed/overworked. If I say no, they're angry at me which isn't great to manage either and it does cause problems elsewhere. For instance, if I say no to nanny, she might quit. But her working extra really ruins my own plans that I had already scheduled for the kids and I, not to mention that it's 1k more a month that I could spend on my kids.[/quote] For the nanny situation, why don't you tell her that you tried it out and it does not work for you? Tell her to choose between her previous schedule or if she prefers separating from her employment and that is fine as well. [/quote]
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