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[quote=Anonymous]You have to come to terms with your spouse not being the domestic partner you want them to be. Do or outsource the things you care about. Stop negotiating with or nagging or reminding your spouse. They are in charge of themselves. You are in charge of yourself. You’re really not a team on house stuff. Kid stuff, try to divide and conquer and when your spouse is in charge, you should be physically absent. Just leave. There’s a really good chance your spouse won’t step up and you’ll end up divorced. But that’s true now! You have to stop trying to control them and just let the chips fall where they may. He is who he is and he’s the captain of his own boat. [/quote]
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