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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All these responses are giving me something to think about. Thanks all. The idea of flagging for his do for might be the easiest path since I have no POA.  When I say he can get angry, yes, I worry that it could be physical with my mother and apparently she called the police the other night. That said she feels like she can’t talk to me on the phone freely because she found recording devices in the house (just found this out) so I feel like I am only getting bits and pieces.  I am planning visit them soon - despite both telling me it’s not a good time I feel like I need to see what’s going on in person. [/quote]

There are bigger issues here.  This doesn't sound like 'early' dementia.  This sounds like the paranoia and anger that comes with dementia.  I would see if you can get him on medication to address these issues.  I know easier said than done.  You need to think about what to do to keep mom safe.

I am sorry that you are going through this. It is hard and there are no easy answers.   You need to do what is best for your dad and what is best for your mom.  And they may not be the same.  It sounds like your mom needs help but doesn't know how to get it.  She may need to just call 911 to get him evaluated.  Sadly, I had to do that with my dad due to a significant change in his behavior, including paranoia.[/quote]

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