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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a woman, I found Bumble to be demoralizing. In my experience, men matched and vetted me AFTER I messaged. I thought they were interested in my profile and pictures, but no. They just liked all women, and when a woman would message as a result of the match, only then would a man decide whether he would consider actually matching. So often times, I would be unmatched after my first message sent. It was an esteem roller coaster and an unforeseen and gross antithesis to the actual intent of women messaging first.[/quote] Why did you message them first? Can’t you just wait until someone really interested messages you ?[/quote] No. The whole point of Bumble, and the way it was set up, was that women only could message first in order to avoid unwanted (and sometimes crass or inappropriate) first messages from men.[/quote]
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