Anonymous wrote:You guys are MORONS for using bumble

You know that the founder of bumble met her husband IRL well after she founded bumble, right?

What’s that tell you?

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Anonymous wrote:As a woman, I found Bumble to be demoralizing. In my experience, men matched and vetted me AFTER I messaged. I thought they were interested in my profile and pictures, but no. They just liked all women, and when a woman would message as a result of the match, only then would a man decide whether he would consider actually matching. So often times, I would be unmatched after my first message sent. It was an esteem roller coaster and an unforeseen and gross antithesis to the actual intent of women messaging first.

Why did you message them first? Can’t you just wait until someone really interested messages you ?

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Anonymous wrote:It's the same - no one messages each other! When I try to message my matches half the time they unmatch. I'm female and when I message it's very low-key, just hi and something based on their profile to get the conversation started, like "hi, I see you like movies, what have you seen recently?" I have no idea how people actually meet!

Most women on Bumble are too lazy to do even that. They just say "hi" and let you take it from there.

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Anonymous wrote:It's the same - no one messages each other! When I try to message my matches half the time they unmatch. I'm female and when I message it's very low-key, just hi and something based on their profile to get the conversation started, like "hi, I see you like movies, what have you seen recently?" I have no idea how people actually meet!

Most women on Bumble are too lazy to do even that. They just say "hi" and let you take it from there.

Anonymous wrote:It's the same - no one messages each other! When I try to message my matches half the time they unmatch. I'm female and when I message it's very low-key, just hi and something based on their profile to get the conversation started, like "hi, I see you like movies, what have you seen recently?" I have no idea how people actually meet!

Anonymous wrote:As a woman, I found Bumble to be demoralizing. In my experience, men matched and vetted me AFTER I messaged. I thought they were interested in my profile and pictures, but no. They just liked all women, and when a woman would message as a result of the match, only then would a man decide whether he would consider actually matching. So often times, I would be unmatched after my first message sent. It was an esteem roller coaster and an unforeseen and gross antithesis to the actual intent of women messaging first.

Anonymous wrote:Pretty bad sign for Bumble. It means male engagement was dropping off big time. Women are the product on the dating apps; men are the source of funds. If men leave the app due to lack of engagement, then Bumble nosedives from a financial perspective.

Scott Galloway is right - 10% of men get 90% of attention on these apps. Rest of the guys were chumps for paying for so long. Lots of guys are dumping the apps - it’s a black hole.