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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He’s landed the prize, now he thinks he doesn’t have to work anymore.[/quote]

OP here. I sense this a little bit. But I’d say the way he works for the prize has changed over time. He doesn’t plan the dates but he does do the dishes, is a good listener when I have a bad day, showers me with attentive sex, is kind to my friends and family, etc. He is honestly a great guy. So I’ve been wondering if maybe I’m being high maintenance for wanting the dates back?[/quote]

[b]No, you are not high maintenance for wanting to feel appreciated, see romantic gestures in your partner etc. [/b]This is what keeps the relationship going long term, when people try to make special things for each other. You can enjoy watching TV on a couch, and nice conversations. But the real life is way bigger than that, external things like dates, quality time together, couple friends, travel do create a different environment for relationship. You just seem craving to explore and see of the world than your partner.

You are not a good match[/quote]

OP wants the lavish dates back. That's the definition of high maintenance. My husband takes me to expensive dates, but I also do my part by paying for dates I start. SOunds like OP wants to take without giving anything in return.[/quote]

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