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[quote=Anonymous]Check in and see if she WANTS the family coming over as much as they are. I was really not up for visitors and would have preferred it just be DH and I for the first month or so. If your wife is nursing, bring her water or coconut water each time she sits down to nurse. Offer to burp him. Keep the kitchen clean, keep the laundry moving. If she's nursing, don't push her to pump. Let her decide how the baby should be fed. Don't view yourself as someone who helps with the baby - that implies it's the mom's job. It's both your jobs. You can get him up, dressed, bathed, etc. You can take him for a walk each morning outside. [/quote]
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