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[quote=Anonymous]We did not expect our kids to be “super” kids. This area is so stressful with so many expectations on kids and we were like: nope! This ended up being a good approach because our kids tend to be anxious naturally and they didn’t need the added stress. Instead of focusing on what they did/produced, we focused on how they showed up/behaved. I also posted our “family values” on the fridge when they were in elementary school, we all read it once, and then we just kept modeling it for them. We didn’t have a perfect marriage and definitely didn’t act great 100% of the time but we did display a lot of love. [/quote]
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