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[quote=Anonymous]I think some people are so determined to have a spouse/kids that they not only settle, but ignore obvious red flags (a bad temper, alcoholism, spending problems, inability to take care of basic things, etc.). These problems generally get worse when kids come into the picture. Some people mistakenly believe their spouse will become more mature and improve, but that often doesn’t happen. Also, in several bad marriages I’ve seen, one spouse began showing serious problems 1-2 years in and the other didn’t walk away pre-kids when they could have. If the parents hadn’t put so much pressure on them for grandkids and instead offered support no matter what, even if they wanted to call off a wedding or divorce, that might have made a difference.[/quote]
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