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[quote=Anonymous]This is a really hard situation to navigate. The goal I think is to be there for her and protect yourself. Keep the conversation steered toward superficial things - do not bring her into your personal situations or topics that will trigger her temper or lectures. Take lots of breaks and walks to get some peace. Maybe "run errands" for her or do other things to get a break. When she lays into you, do not react or engage. I think old people become more extreme versions of themselves as they age so I wouldn't imagine it will get much better for you. That's sad, but if you can accept it for what it is and protect yourself accordingly, that might be the best way forward.[/quote]
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