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[quote=Anonymous]This is not your decision or your dad’s decision. This is your mom’s decision. She’s not a puppy who needs rehoming. Honestly, if it were me I’d be as vague as possible with your dad to make it sound like you’re going to do exactly what he wants you to. It is definitely not his place to decide where your mom will live, but I wouldn’t try to hash that out with someone with a terminal diagnosis. If it gives him comfort to believe that your mom is going to move in with you, then I would certainly heavily imply that. But in the end, this is your mom’s choice. She may have a certain amount of learned helplessness after living with your dad, who it sounds like was happy to take control of things. But she still gets to make that choice. [/quote]
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