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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In other words, do you think each and every one of us has what others would consider red flag behaviors? I'm a pretty mild, middle of the road kind of person. I don't know if I have or possess red flag behaviors but I guess I have to, right? I know I'm far from perfect, and there are things about myself I'd like to improve upon. In general I stay out of the fray, I don't discuss politics outside of the house - ever, I'm an omnivore, I believe in God but I'm not religious, I'm open minded in terms of health and holistic medicine but also lean on western medicine. I love dogs, but don't own one because I know they're a lot of work. I don't push my kids hard - my DD was self driven but DS struggles with academics and social skills. He's now 21 and frankly I'm tired of always having to push and motivate him so I've gotten looser with my demands on him. Heck maybe that is a red flag behavior I possess?

What are behaviors that others might perceive as a red flag, and are you trying to change those behaviors? [/quote]

[b]OP, it seems like you are desperately trying to downplay something. Did someone tell you that you have multiple red flags? Or even one red flag?  Are you or they downplaying egregious behavior on your part? Are they telling you something that you would never see in yourself?  [/b]

If I told an employee that they had a red flag, this would be very (very) telling and extremely serious. Are you taking the advice seriously?  [/quote]

Oh gosh no, not at all! But I guess I can see why you might wonder about that. I spend a lot of time in nature, walking, thinking etc., and this is a thought I had yesterday. I truly do not think I have any egregious behaviors, and no one has said anything to me. I guess this is more just a philosophical thought on my part. [/quote]

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