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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I genuinely get triggered when I hear men complain about their wives withholding sex, as though their wives are obligated to sleep with them, no matter what, just because they got married. I've had a period of low libido and my husband accused me of manipulating him to get him to change what he was doing because I did't want to have sex. But sex wasn't even on my mind! I was just depressed! It made me so mad.

But I know there are women who use sex to get what they want. Probably more than I think, just because it's such a foreign concept to me. I think it's awful. Unless it's some agreement that they have made with their husband, like they are sex workers or something. [/quote]

I’m a woman and for me it’s triggering that someone enters the monogamous institution of marriage without wanting to keep their end of the bargain. Yes, you are obligated to have sex your spouse. Otherwise, don’t get married.[/quote]

If that was the deal you made when you got married, absolutely! But I never promised to have sex with my husband even when I am depressed and exhausted. I'm not obligated to do that at all and I genuinely feel sorry for people who think they are. [/quote]

This i do agree with if i am not in the mood dont make me out to be a horrible wife. To me he is just immature. [/quote]

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