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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Need advice: 
A friend recently asked me if something was wrong. They shared they felt as though the vibe of our friendship is “off” and asked if something happened. 
Background, if I don’t call they don’t call. I very pregnant, tired, anxious and have a lot going on in life. I’m tired of always being the one to call and always the one who is chatting during these calls. 
Why can’t they call if I don’t? Why assume something is wrong if the phone works both ways? [/quote]

You literally described how the vibe of your friendship is indeed "off." You used to initiate all the contact and now you're tired of doing that. I'm not saying your actions or feelings are unjustified, but your question was why would they assume something is wrong and it's because something is wrong...

If you need more from them, then tell them that. But if you always met someone for a walk at 8 am on Tuesdays and you stopped coming, they'd wonder why. You've changed the cadence your relationship had. That's fine, you can do that, but it's weird to then wonder why they've noticed what you've done...[/quote]

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