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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would tell dad that mom is moving to an appropriate place and he can go along or fend for himself. Each of them should be allowed to make their own choice. If he wants to live all weekend in a wet diaper, he is entitled to choose that. Your mom will be making friends at the new place she is living. I have a child with profound disabilities that needs to move to an intermediate care facility before my husband and I cannot physically care for her. My husband will try to keep her at home to the bitter end. While this is probably 10 years away, I’ve told him that if we cannot make a mutual decision then I will move out at some point. I would still love him, I would never divorce him and I would spend a lot of time with him. But I cannot change diapers on our grown daughter forever, and feed her, bathe her, etc. We both get to make our own choices.[/quote] I could have written this. [/quote]
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