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[quote=Anonymous][quote]If you feel like cleaning up, doing laundry etc is "kissing her ass" or "helping out" rather than something that you need to do then wake up now and kick your ass in gear. The attitude alone of doing parenting and home upkeep is helping or something that you need to be asked to do kills the sexual attraction and just builds a combination of resentment and regret in your partner. [/quote] Yes, you may not have meant it this way, OP, but the "kiss her ass" comment made me wonder about this issue too. (Again perhaps you meant that having to handle *all* housework, plan a perfect date night, say everything right, etc. etc. - which I understand could be a little tedious just to get some nookie.) But if pulling your own weight at home is somehow tantamount to "kissing her ass" - well, you've just got your answer there to why you aren't getting any. Seriously, no. 1 libido killer = having to ask DH to do one of "his" chores that obviously needs doing.[/quote]
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