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[quote=Anonymous]Also, if they placate the abuser, this keeps them out of the line of fire. I've seen this be a main reason quite often. It's also easier to attack people who will actually change rather than abusers so what happens is that the person actually more responsible gets picked on while the person who is out of control gets placated so that they aren't responsible for their behavior. Then the person can say they were just trying to be nice and care for the person thus feeling like they are doing something when in reality they were just giving an OK to the abusive behavior.[/quote]
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