Reply to Any good ways to talk about sexual frequency?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Any good ways to talk about sexual frequency?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]I totally agree with 10:28.

My DH and I improved our sexual frequency when he came to me and said he needed sex more often.  I was thinking the same thing.  We both needed to make sex a priority to make it happen.

It may sound lame to schedule a "date" night, but it at least is a start to get it on the calendar.  The more you connect on a regular basis physically, the more spontaneous and frequently the sex becomes.  You just need a starting point and improve things from there.  If necessary, start out with one "date" night per week and add more with time till your needs are fulfilled on a regular basis.

Our rules for "date" night, we do it no matter what.  As previous poster stated, my DH and I may not initially be "feeling it" but once foreplay starts, we begin to get in the mood.  The schedule makes us commit to having sex as a priority.

For us, date nights are alone time with each other however we can get it.  Sometimes we hire a sitter to go to dinner and a movie.  If we can't get a sitter or want to stay home, we have dinner together after the kids go to bed.  Sitting together and talking without interruptions helps us to re-connect.  Sometimes date night is us turning off the TV early and going to our bedroom for sex before we fall asleep.

Trying new things together and dropping the vanilla sex has also helped for both of us to look forward date night.  We both give each other "homework" assignments and try to fulfill each other fantasies to spice things up and keep it fun.    [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics