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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm willing to do whatever she wants to make her feel sexy and not mom-like. But, I have to admit that on some level I get distrustful when she says I should do x, y, and/or z without expectations of sex in order to get her to feel sexy. What I hear on that level is "kiss my ass for an unspecified period of time, and I will consider showing you affection in a way that indicates I regard you as desirable, lovable, and something other than a source of financing & participant in my child raising endeavors."[/quote] +1 brother. And I'll add to that: I'm already doing a hell of a lot around the house. I cook 3/4 of meals, I clean the bathrooms and kitchen. I get the kids ready for school in the morning. I run them to all their weekend errands/play dates, etc. And still I'm made to feel like it's not "enough." Anyway, I gave up on the sex thing. I want it, but I have my dignity too. I'm tired of being taken for granted, and I will not beg.[/quote]
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