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[quote=Anonymous]I think counseling would help. Seriously, this is a really sensitive topic. And you are right, this is so, so common, but sadly, divorce is common too. You are right to be expressing your feelings, my husband didn't, let his resentment build up to the point where we are considering divorce and he claims he is not sexually attracted to me at all. Which sucks, because I'm attractive. And so is he. We just let things get too far.

Look, sex is going to have to a be compromise in most long term relationships. Those first few years you both probably wanted all the time so it wasn't an issue. As things settle in, there may be a higher desire and lower desire partner, and that may shift over different phases. I think the thing is to have a happy medium. One thing that may help is planned time away, even just for a night. Start planning some special date nights and know that it will end with sex, etc.

I think men like to be the ones not initiating all the time, and I think women like nonsexual affection through the week, and to feel desired and sexy. Especialy when we become moms, it can be really tough. So much of your life you are a mom you stop feeling as desirable. I'm in great shape, I take care of myself and dress nice, have nice lingerie, etc., but sometimes I feel like a mom.[/quote]

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