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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]IS it a problem though?  I really have no ill feelings...I'm just not possessive.  Maybe I just put less emphasis on monogamy.  I'd be crushed if he LEFT me for someone.[/quote]

If you seriously have no ill feelings, tell your DH how you feel.  If you don't have an emphasis on monogamy, maybe he doesn't either and you both would be happy with an open marriage.[/quote]

DW and I play outside the marriage but set up mutually agreeable rules.  First it has to be discreet so we don't throw it in each other's face and nobody we know finds out.  Then no kissing is allowed, condoms only, and no anal.  Also, we must tell each other when we are going to meet another person.  Finally, if we even think for a second that we are developing feelings for that person, they are never to be seen again.

Why do we do this?  We love each other but do not believe in monogamy.  We have no plans to end the marriage nor fall in love with someone else.  But we both have a need to experience someone else once in a while so why lie about it?  Why do something and feel guilty?  My wife wants to once in a while be with another man.  I have no desire to watch them or participate.  I would rather have this than find out she screwed around on a business trip.  The bottom line is, we are honest with each other which is better than a lot of monogamous couples can say. [/quote]

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