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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe, in theory, the thought that he would be attracted to someone else and acted on it doesn't upset you. But that doesn't mean you wouldn't be hurt if it actually plays out. Think about it - if you found out that he's been lying and hiding things from you (which goes hand in hand with cheating unless it's an agreed-upon open relationship), spending time and money and energy on someone else - would you really be that okay with it? I thought my husband wasn't the type and would never cheat, and at one point I thought I wouldn't mind if he went looking for sex elsewhere. But when I found out he had actually done it, and how, and for how long, I was horrified at his duplicity, the degree of dishonesty and hypocrisy, as well as the time and mental energy he was putting into it. It wasn't so much the fact that he had acted on his attraction to someone else but the deception, lies, and shenanigans that he came up with in order to do it.[/quote]
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