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[quote=Anonymous]This is not so much your sibling disrespecting you but is your sibling pushing to stay in a caretaking role (to show love) for the parent. Your sibling is feeling the emotional tug of wanting to take care of their parent. It is their parent. They probably have the personality of being a care taker. And some of it, they can't easily just turn off. But your parent chose you because you are the more ... practical? reliable? less triggered emotionally. It was for a good reason whatever it is. I guess you just need to put up with your siblings being upset with you. Not much else you can do. The facility certainly *has to* deal with this all the time - more than one family member wanting to instruct them. It's confusing. They have procedures, they train their staff - or they don't, but should. But there isn't too much you can do except remind the person in charge, once in awhile. [/quote]
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