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[quote=Anonymous]NP. To all of you calling OP "controlling". It sounds like OP is the one who carries all of the caregiving "mental load" and then every now and then a sibling swoops in and makes a rash (and perhaps self-serving) decision based on limited experience and knowledge. Are any of you mothers who were/are the primary caregivers for your kids? Did your kids have any special needs? It would be akin to you shouldering all the responsibility for the planning and supervision of their medical/mental/academic/social/behavioral needs and then randomly having your husband wander in and announce "Unlimited screentime and candy for everyone!" Can you not take a moment to imagine/remember how caregiving can be complex at any age and how many decisions should not be made lightly?[/quote]
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