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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Either wife or husband, I don't care. I'm the wife, BTW, would like to know what underperforming would look like for both me and my husband. Just need a reality check here - am I doing enough? Am I pulling my own weight and then some? Sex, paid work, childcare, house/yard work, emotional load ... all of it valid here. [/quote] Underperform as a spouse could be a mind F to make you “support” whatever selfish plans and agenda your accusor has. Legitimately “underperforming” spouses are likely not being a team partner in many spousal areas - raising kids, keeping the home nice, health and safety do the family, communicating well with life partner, setting goals and plans for the family, upholding positive values and traditions for the kids/spouse, respecting and connecting the the spouse. [/quote]
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