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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why would you ask a child about something that does't involve them and is an adult choice that they ultimately have no say. If they say they don't want you to divorce, then what?[/quote] This. Are you going to say "Too bad!" and do it anyway? I think you know, OP, that you're hoping your children will validate your divorce so that you feel less guilty about it. But it's wrong to put them in that position. It's harmful. They'll feel partially responsible for your divorce forever, and if either parent is lonely or unhappy they'll feel responsible for that too. You need to be the adult and own your choices. If you truly feel divorce is best for your family, then do it, and own the choices both positive and negative.[/quote]
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