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[quote=Anonymous]My wife isn't overweight really but she's gotten flabby since our son was born. I understand the exhaustion of having a child and how hard it is to eat right and stay in shape, but I am simply not attracted to the way she looks anymore. I, on the other hand, bounced right back after the baby; I got back into really great shape. I work out like crazy (at nights when, yes, sometimes I'd rather be sleeping or relaxing). I eat very healthy. I mean, I am super toned and look better than pre-baby. I have tried everything to give her subtle hints. I only buy healthy foods, but she simply eats too much. I try to serve her correct portion sizes, but she'll just go back for seconds. I tell her how great I feel when I work out, how much more energy I have, etc. and have suggested that we trade off nights of working out, or I offered if she prefers morning work outs, I could wake her up earlier. She hasn't taken any hints at all. I feel like it is just plain laziness. She will sit around for 2 hours and play on the computer or read a book at night, but she won't make an effort to go out even for a 2 mile run. It doesn't make sense to me. Should I be more direct? I don't want to be mean, but how do I address this? I would never cheat on her, but I have to admit, I find myself fantasizing about other women who look better.[/quote]

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