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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]it sounds to me like he wants an actual relationship, not just a hook up.[/quote]

As a guy this is my view.  I was never into the casual dating or hook ups.  Just not my thing.  And didn’t have sex until there was a defined exclusive relationship.[/quote]

You are me. And any woman who wanted a bunch of guys to buy her dinner and compete over her would not be a match for me.[/quote]

Not all women are into dinners. But if you are not courting a woman, eg taking her out in some way, giving her flowers, taking to your sports, hikes, and show your generosity  in some way, she won’t feel a relationship is growing into a romantic one. Someone will take her from you. So probably a man needs to focus himself on his “target” and have budget for finding a partner rather than thinking of all other guys she’s “dating”. I personally don’t date a bunch of guys past date 3. After 30 first dates I get down to 5 informal second dates which are usually just a hike or a coffee. Then I get to  2 “front runners” and see how things progress with them to choose one
eventually. If one is cheap and uninventive with dates  in that final push he’s out. For example right now I thought I had a “finalist” but he’s not very good in planning things ahead or asks me to find places to go. I almost changed my mind about having sex with him.

In the end, men multi-date or sleep non-exclusively with multiple partners way more often than women. [/quote]

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