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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Marriage is doomed. [/quote]

Why do you say this? [/quote]

You are never going to let it go. You will always have questions. Even 10 years from now you will have doubts and questions. He will get tired of eating shit.[/quote]

Thinking of it as "eating shit" is the problem. OP asking questions and thinking about it is normal, and not the cause of the issue.

He violated her trust and he broke something within the marriage. They both need to to seek to repair it if they want to repair it. If he has an expectation it will be forgotten, and she cannot forget, then it can't be repaired.

They need to figure out together how they can repair the trust. OP cannot be expected to do it alone.

If he views this process as "punishment" as opposed to the natural consequence of that broken trust, then it might not be repairable.

One question I'd have is whether the husband is in individual therapy. Because if he's struggling with guilt, feeling punished, etc., talking to a therapist about it could help him deal with it so that he doesn't get so irritated with his wife (who has done and is doing nothing wrong) when she asks questions about the affair.[/quote]

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