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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do they send the parents of little boys notification each time they hire a new female staffer?[/quote] They don't need to because statistically adult males are more likely to be pedophiles. [/quote] WTF is wrong with people? I would be THRILLED a man is working there. It's important for children to have all types of caregivers, and for them to learn that men can be caretakers too. Do you think your DH shouldn't be able to help a friend's kid go to the bathroom? Not every man who works with children is Jerry Sandusky. [/quote] Are you a man? [i]Not every man who works with children is Jerry Sandusky. [/i] Yes, except you do not know who is a potential Jerry Sandusky, do you? It takes a level of trust and familiarity with the caregiver men and women for most parents to give their kids to them for care giving. I would not trust a neighbor or a friend's husband either to be a caregiver that is changing cloths or diapering. sure, if it is an emergency, these familiar people could help out a kid, but I could not call upon them to be the care provider. Yes, my DH did more than 50% of caregiving of our kids. And both grandpas and uncle and cousins have provided babysitting. Your bar may be lower. I would not trust any man that I do not know very well and trust completely with my kids and even then I draw a line with the men changing my kid, diapering or seeing them naked. There is no reason to make your kids the easy targets for pedos, No one cares to be the first wilderbeest to jump into the crocodile infested river. [/quote]
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