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[quote=Anonymous]   I have a sibling who is incredibly difficult. Her ex needed a restraining order against her. She is causing major issues in her workplace and her child emancipated from her at 16. After enough therapy exploring the way she treated me throughout childhood, I can definitely say she was emotionally abusive and there was and is personality disordered behavior ( not diagnosing, just saying there are certainly symptoms).  This was not and is not normal sibling rivalry. After our first parent passed away she went completely off the rails. When the time comes, I would like to be able to plan our father's funeral without interacting with her at all. I am willing to let her do everything, but she would not. She also will not allow me to take the reigns. Are there services in northern Virginia where you can hire someone to communicate with both of us and do everything. It if comes down to the planner saying "well your sister wants x, not y" to keep things moving, I would go along with anything. I simply do not want to interact with her because it opens the door to alarming behavior. [/quote]

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