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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, not much you can do and it sucks. My ILs probably had 10-20X in retirement savings compared to my parents, whose biggest indulgence in their latter years was an ice cream cone a couple times a week. And my ILs have pretty much spent it all and may be here for another 10 years. One of them would only be able to reside in a memory care unit if they had to leave their home. DH was so great with my parents, so I don't feel like I can complain - yet it didn't have to be this way.[/quote]

This example isn't particularly compelling, TBH. Spend your latter years living by "indulging" in a couple of ice cream cones a week? So you can keep a healthy bank balance which will only be siphoned off in no time by a long term care facility?

The fact is that if a person has no income or assets, Medicaid will take over their long term care. My mother scrimped and saved and didn't fully LIVE or enjoy her retirement because she wanted to save it for her care. Well, guess what. All her savings was blown through in a matter of months at a  facility and she wound up on Medicaid anyway.  She stayed in the same facility, got the same care, the bill was just paid by Medicaid.

I wish, wish, wish she had taken that cruise, gone on that trip, gone ahead and bought the full-price dress and had the time of her life with her hard-earned money and made memories with all of us.   [/quote]

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