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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please explain how thos makes sense in a way other than men trying to control women's bodies.[/quote]

Quite the opposite.  This is empowering to women, while contraception results in men controlling women, body, heart, mind, and soul.

When sex is inextricably linked to the possibility of procreation, the full power of a woman is present.  Think of it this way:  if a man walks up to a woman in a bar and says, "I want to have sex with you," that is one thing.  If a man walks up to a woman in a bar and says, "I want to have a baby with you," that is something entirely different.  Because making love and possibly creating a new life is heavy.  It requires commitment, fidelity, vulnerability, trust, patience, courage, and mutual respect.  The woman is not an object to be used, but a whole person.

It is both the man and the woman who are required to control their bodies if they are not  ready for the possibility of a new life when the woman does not use artificial contraception.  Mutual communication and respect is essential.

Anyone who reads DCUM for any length of time sees the fallout of contraceptive sex:  disagreements about having another baby.  Resentment because one partner wanted a baby more than the other.  No sex drive.  Feeling used when TTC.

This is not a random rule, like driving on the right side of the road.  This is the essence, the real truth, of the meaning of sex.  If sex is disrespected, if its full meaning is not appreciated, then negative consequences follow.

So it is not about control, but about freedom.  Freedom is not about doing whatever you want, but about choosing to do what is right.
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That is utterly preposterous. If a woman or a man uses contraception, you're saying there's no communication about when to have another baby?? Are you for real?

There can't mutual respect and communication and birth control? You can't choose to do what's right and use birth control? You're crazy.[/quote]

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