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[quote=Anonymous]So I know the bullying of your son is water under the bridge. But I hope you can see that you misjudged this by allowing it if you could have prevented it. My take on your current situation as a parent of a very difficult child (now adult) with mental illness is this. As a parent, I try to help everyone see the other side and figure out how to reconcile. I will tell you if you are unreasonable. I will commiserate if you are being treated unfairly but will guide you to a solution if you are open. But if you can’t see your part or are not going to work at it, walk away and stop complaining and making everyone miserable. I will not choose between my kids. All this being said, we have figured this out. It sucks having a mental illness and it sucks being the younger kid. And it’s hard on the parents. [/quote]
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