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[quote=Anonymous]Okay thank you.

While I feel very sorry for her child, and IF it is my boyfriend's child, that would make it a half-sibling to my child, I refuse to subject my child to a bunch of drama.

There is a LOT more to this woman than I am letting on, because I didn't want that to distract from my questions. She and her family have a LOT of issues. Involving myself with her would mean having my child exposed to them. She and her family and new husband all think we should all be friends and hang out and have play dates. Um, not happening.

I have not tried to sway my boyfriend either way on what to do about the child. He says he just doesn't want to be an involved father. If he has to pay support, fine, but that's all his involvement. He won't talk about it, and I have no problem if he does want to see this other child if it is his, but he just feels it would be way more trouble than its worth. Plus this child knows the new husband as Dad, and he feels it would just be better to leave it that way. So not much I can do about that.[/quote]

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