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[quote=Anonymous]DH is an angry workaholic (wasn’t always angry).  He lashes out at the kids and me. He’s working on it and I’ve told him it has to chance very clearly but I don’t think he believes I’d actually divorce him. If it hasn’t changed substantially in the next year, I’ll need to initiate a divorce for all of our well being.

We currently live in boston for his job.  We have no family here or strong connections, though we are slowly building a life here post covid. We have talked about moving to charlotte both to be near my family, less $$, and better weather.  He would need to travel a bit more for work there and has no connections there so he’s willing to do it but it’d be for my sake.

If divorce is currently feeling possible, should I push the move sooner rather than later  so that we are there when the divorce starts? On one hand it’s a dick move to force him to be stuck in a city he wouldn’t live in otherwise, on the other hand I’d currently be stuck in a very expensive part of an expensive city with no family support for no real reason other than he wouldn’t be willing to move post divorce (he won’t have much custody most likely mainly bc he wouldn’t want it, so his traveling a night or two more a week would not impact children)

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