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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This kind of thing definitely happens if you are in the zone during a busy period at work. If it slips in the near term, you'll forget and won't address it until you can catch your breath because you are inundated with other things.[/quote]

And the times she takes days to respond but it’s not because of work? Or what about the weekends when she isn’t working?[/quote]

Look, some people are just bad at texting. Multiple people here have told you why that might be the case. I don’t think it makes someone a bad person, but you seem committed to believing that. In that case, maybe just let this friend go. I am a person who sometimes responds belatedly and certainly don’t need my friends to be secretly judging me for it.[/quote]

THIS.

To the OP, if you place your personal idea of texting "requirements" ahead of your history with this friend, then you really aren't her friend.

You sound more invested in feeling hurt and insulted than in her as your friend. If my friend didn't respond for a long time I would wonder if she was OK, or if work was tough (your friend's actual case!), or if I had missed a text or whatever. The first thought would [i]not[/i] be that she was rude or ignoring me. If you needed a response by a certain deadline for this trip planning, well, you can phone her. Actual phone calls are still a thing, as your friend clearly knows. She did the right thing to phone you and apologize and explain. [/quote]

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