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[quote=Anonymous]Yes. She was the cooling presence I needed. My sweet husband was amazing but when I was in pain he really struggled. I needed several interventions after a long labor and my doula supported me emotionally in the waves of decisions needed. She also helped me laugh a lot instead of getting grumpy with hubs and staff. She was not granola at all (but I am 😂). We are friends so that also helps. She was also a witness so when I needed to process things after she had my whole story and could remember with me. That said. So i guess a dear friend might be able to do this. But her doula training was invaluable in birth prep and understanding what was going on when I was overwhelmed. She gave my partner good breaks which he needed too. I’m pro doula for sure and since it’s your 3rd you might consider having a trained doula or friend who’s had a few kids come. Either would be super nice and supportive. A post partum doula might be the ticket too. The home visits and food is wonderful [/quote]
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