Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Off-Topic
Reply to "Hot tub people "
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I don't like hot tubs / hot tub people. I'm fine with hot tubs in a spa / gym and as part of a self-care routine, but I don't like people who have hot tubs in their backyard and try to make it part of every social gathering, i.e. Neighborhood Cocktail Party "Ps - bring you swimsuit, the hot tub will be waiting!" No, I do not want to change out of my nice clothes / blow dried hair to sit in a warm germ pool inches away from my 80-year-old neighbors essentially in my underwear. My very good friend just got a hot tub and I am dreading the ensuing social activity. What is proper etiquette here, I oblige the first invitation, since it's to "come see the new hot tub" and then don't bring swimsuit/ change the venue from there? Can I get away with rolling up my pants and going in up to my knees? Over the years, I have found that people with hot tubs are genuinely very excited about them and can't imagine anyone would feel differently. I don't feel any body shame, I just don't think that getting undressed and wet enhances any social event. Am I a stick in the mud? [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics