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[quote=Anonymous] My MIL has late-stage Parkinson's and has become very ruminative, particularly over her past struggles (escaping war, raising 4 kids on very little, losing two children, her husband's bipolar disorder, heavy stuff). My husband is very patient and listens to her every word, which is SO helpful. It makes her feel heard and lightens her load, even if she goes right back to repeating everything the next day. Her other kids don't have that patience, and honestly, I don't have either. I'm not sure your mother can change. You can always ask her not to talk about these things to your kid, see if she can manage that at least. And please train your child to deflect, change the subject and leave if they feel too uncomfortable. Your child should not be bearing this burden. Ultimately, perhaps it's time to start looking for alternative accommodation for your mother. [/quote]
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