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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here- thank you. I don't think anyone ever really gets over abuse, no matter how much therapy- we just learn to control our reactions to certain situations. I didn't do that last night even though I knew there was no purpose in lashing out. I struggle with my mom because, as I've had my own experiences, I realize that my core emotions are pity and anger- both are uncomfortable and make me want to have very little contact with her, which makes me feel guilty! [b]My mom has *no* concern for me, or my family, or my marriage, or my own health and finances,[/b] not if she had to choose between what she wants and what is good for me..and her needing support that will require enormous resources of time, energy, money is scary! [/quote] Her future is not your problem. You are not legally or morally obligated to support her financially or physically care for her. [/quote]
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