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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think if you can find a way to be cordial and never have sex with the person again and live somewhat separately the way these no-sex marriages work that is safe and respectable if not fulfilling, it could maybe work out at least till the kids are out of the house. Have a new set of rules to follow about the marriage that both of you agree to and adhere to. I can't imagine living in fear or living a lie is healthy for anyone and it's rubbish to believe that someone cheating on you especially repeatedly actually still loves you. I think a lot of women miss the money but not the man if you are asking strictly about women.[/quote]

Regarding no sex, out of safety concerns:  Imagine the alternative of going back out on the dating scene.  Think of all the questionably safe, leap-of-faith sex (even with STDs testing) you'd have to have then.  Potentially beng exposed secondhand to a few people through your spouse versus being directly exposed on the dating scene -- is the latter really better?[/quote]

Also, my ex told me he was done with seeing others and had never had sex. I got an sti from him for trying to work through the marriage for a year. Nice parting gift. Cheaters are not safe people.[/quote]

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