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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think if you can find a way to be cordial and never have sex with the person again and live somewhat separately the way these no-sex marriages work that is safe and respectable if not fulfilling, it could maybe work out at least till the kids are out of the house. Have a new set of rules to follow about the marriage that both of you agree to and adhere to. I can't imagine living in fear or living a lie is healthy for anyone and it's rubbish to believe that someone cheating on you especially repeatedly actually still loves you. I think a lot of women miss the money but not the man if you are asking strictly about women.[/quote]

Regarding no sex, out of safety concerns:  Imagine the alternative of going back out on the dating scene.  Think of all the questionably safe, leap-of-faith sex (even with STDs testing) you'd have to have then.  Potentially beng exposed secondhand to a few people through your spouse versus being directly exposed on the dating scene -- is the latter really better?[/quote]

I agree, but unfortunately, most people don't have a choice because one person wants out of the marriage eventually and/or the disrespect starts to run high and then there is no safety in the marriage. Or the person gets used to a point where they cease to have their own life. If those can be avoided and you can be cordial and come to agreement on new terms and be ok living on those terms then sure, but [b]cheaters don't tend to be strong thinkers or compassionate people.[/b][/quote]

So true, lol sob.[/quote]

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