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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The more you show them love, the more they withdraw. So the only way to feel reciprocal love is to pull back. It’s tiring. [/quote] It's SO tiring. It also always has to be on their terms - the expression and amount expressed. My SO knows it's difficult though, so he is very appreciative that I stick with him. [b]He also has some fears from growing up [/b]that seem to make him test me - like he wants to really be sure I won't leave him or stop loving him. Took a long time to understand that this wasn't about me but his comfort with intense feelings and fear of losing control.[/quote] Avoidant attachment styles stem from neglect/abuse in childhood. They are directly related.[/quote] What about those that are attracted to avoidants?[/quote]
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